To Be or Not To Be

2008 December 13
by Fr. Milovan Katanic

troypolamaluIn light of all the rather unfortunate news about Blagojevich it’s nice to hear some good news as well. Luckily, of course, the fact that Blagojevich is Serbian has not been brought up. (Frankly, I’m still amazed at how everyone has found his name difficult to pronouce!?!  Haven’t they learned from Milosevic, Karadzic, etc.?) Though I haven’t heard any statements made by church officials I’m sure there would be one or two had Blagojevich been tied with his Serbian roots. As far as Serbs go, he is not much of one. Last I heard he married a Catholic girl and attends her church and only shows up among the Serbs when he needs their vote. (And, yes, we’re stupid enough to hang out with him.) How bad of a Serb could he possibly be? For starters, he voted YES for the bombing of Serbia in 1999. Yeah, he might be Serbian by birth but I think I’d have problems pronoucing his name as well.

Then there are the real Serbs. Milorad Cavic has done it again. This American born Serb doesn’t miss an opportunity to show his love for being Serbian. He has just won the European Swimming Championship in Rijeka, Croatia setting a new European record while doing so.

In other Orthodox Sports News we have a Yahoo! Sports talk with convert to Orthodoxy Troy Polamalu:

Tuesday conversation: Troy Polamalu

PITTSBURGH – Strong safety Troy Polamalu has become known around the Pittsburgh Steelers as the last guy out of the locker room on Sundays after home games. All of his teammates are long gone and even most of the equipment guys have cleared out by the time he emerges. Polamalu goes through a detailed process, including a dip in a cold tub and a lengthy shower to relax after a hard-hitting afternoon.

However, for a guy who doesn’t seem to be in a hurry to leave, Polamalu does put a serious priority on his time away from the field with his wife, Theodora, the sister of Polamalu’s former USC teammate Alex Holmes.

Polamalu took some after Sunday’s win over the San Francisco 49ers to engage in a Q&A with Yahoo! Sports.

Cole: Do you have a routine you follow on your day off?

Polamalu: We work out together because that’s our only day off together. It’s a pretty decent workout. She does a lot of running and I do a lot of stretching. Tuesday is also our only opportunity to go to church together, so we do that.

Cole: When and where do you go?

Polamalu: It starts at 8:30 (a.m.). … It’s the Nativity of the Theotokos monastery (in Saxonburg, Pa.).

Cole: I know you’re devoutly Christian (Polamalu has a carefully arranged series of religious items in his locker at Heinz Field), but exactly which denomination?

Polamalu: Greek Orthodox. Theotokos literally means the Mother of God.

Cole: How long are you in services?

Polamalu: They usually go to about 12:30.

Cole: That’s a four-hour service. Is that a normal service?

Polamalu: Pretty much, especially at a monastery.

Cole: Can you describe it?

Polamalu: What’s really neat about the Orthodox church is that it’s like walking back in time 2,000 years to the time of the Apostles, when they created these services. You walk into that and it’s really like … living it. They have maintained the truth ever since the beginning.

Cole: You’re Polynesian. How did you end up at a Greek Orthodox church?

Polamalu: There are different ethnicities, like Russian Orthodox. My wife is Greek. I was a non-denomination Christian before we got married. So we sit around there and meet with our spiritual mother and then we go home, maybe take a nap, work out and then go home and have dinner.

Cole: Who’s making dinner?

Polamalu: My wife; I cannot cook at all. I’ve tried. I’m terrible. When I cook, it’s something nobody else would enjoy.

Cole: You only cook specialty things for yourself?

Polamalu: No, it’s not that nobody else will make it for me, it’s that I’m the only one who is going to enjoy it. I’ll look at the other people and say, “Did you like it?” They say, “Noooooooo.”

Cole: Do you have any other hobbies or things you do away from the field? Maybe bowling?

Polamalu: No, not really. The single guys go bowl. The guys who are married go home, mostly. I really focus on spending time with my wife.

Cole: How hard is it to get time at home during the season? I know guys like (Miami Dolphins linebacker) Zach Thomas stay at the facility until very late studying film and (Indianapolis Colts quarterback) Peyton Manning is watching film at home.

Polamalu: First of all, I’m a Christian so my prayer life really comes first. Second of all, I’m a husband so my wife comes before anything else. If I have time to do anything else after that, I do it, but I don’t sacrifice any time with her.

Cole: A lot of guys do it the other way around. Football comes first. They say family and faith come first, but they really do the football first. How do you reconcile it?

Polamalu: It’s really easy for me. I love my faith and I know that’s first. …. I really think I know what’s important in my life and that’s my faith and my wife.

Cole: So football is a really focused activity. There’s no wasted time, right?

Polamalu: Actually, it’s a lot of fun and it’s something I enjoy. It’s not like when I’m here it’s business time and then there’s family time. Football is, for me, it’s something I do. It’s like for you, you’re a reporter. It’s what you do, not who you are. Football does not define me. How I am with my faith and how I treat my wife is what truly defines you as a man. That is my goal in life to live that way and believe in it. It would be cowardly of me to say that I enjoy my time with my faith and my wife if I really didn’t spend that time with them.

Cole: How long have you been married?

Polamalu: Two years now.

Cole: Kids?

Polamalu: God willing, someday. But three dogs counts for one kid, I think.

Cole: Um, no.

Polamalu: Three English bulldogs count for one kid.

Cole: No.

Polamalu:No?

Cole: I have two kids. No.

Polamalu: Come on, it has to count for one kid.

Cole: I respect and admire your beliefs and your stands on many things, but I’m not buying the three dogs-to-one kid ratio.

Polamalu: OK, you win this one.

Cole: Wait till you have a child waking up at 3 a.m., hungry and then he’s got colic and he’s screaming and you have no idea why.

Polamalu: (laughing) Yeah, it’s probably like, “Talk to me, tell me what’s wrong. Oh, that’s right, you can’t talk to me.” Yeah, with the dogs it’s if they pee in the house you say, “Go to the kennel.”

Source: Yahoo Sports

17 Responses leave one →
  1. 2008 December 25

    Esteban> How did you learn all of this sports trivia?

  2. 2008 December 23

    Well, I know that in this sport of which you speak so highly they fling pigs through the air. That’s not very nice. Also, I’ve seen this other sport — one played on a dirt diamond, in which players run only to get to the very point where they started out to begin with. That’s rather pointless.

    ;-)

    No, I generally don’t discuss such things publicly. I’ll be glad to share the details with you sometime privately, however.

  3. 2008 December 18

    Some kind of sport?

    If you’re living in America it is *the* sport.

    Coincidentally, I don’t know if you do that sort of thing over at Vox Stefani but I would look forward to reading about your conversion.

  4. 2008 December 18

    Well, God bless this Troy Polamalu! I have no idea who he is, and the only thing I know about football is that it’s some kind of a sport, but I’m very glad that he’s a pious Orthodox Christian unashamed to live and speak of his faith,

  5. 2008 December 16

    What a guy!

  6. 2008 December 15

    I used to follow football, now it’s whenever I have time. But even when I’m not following the sport that closely the only thing I care about is – did the Steelers lose?

    All joking aside. I have no idea what it is, I suppose that’s what one gets for growing up in the Dawg Pound.

  7. 2008 December 15
    Mira Filipovic permalink

    Popadija!! That was very very funny!! As for the Steeler kumstvo Bosko recommended, the idea is brilliant. Fr. Zdinak can be Fr. Milovan’s and we’d be honored to be Fr. Rade’s. ;-)

  8. 2008 December 15
    Bosko permalink

    Does anyone notice how Polomalu also crosses himself after every play? I’ve run into him at the monastery and he is very approachable and soft spoken, and most of all, devout. It’s awsome to see someone truly living their Orthodox faith.

    Father Milovan – it may be time for you to convert – to the Steelers that is. Fr. Zdinak can be your Steeler kum.

  9. 2008 December 15
    tatiana permalink

    milovan, you might want to hold off on insulting the steelers until after vodica. ;-)

  10. 2008 December 15

    Dear Fr. Milovan,

    Hvala Bogu that you have the true Christian faith. However, my dearest brother, you have been deceived by the followers of the “canus losers”, Real Pennsylvanians (and Ohio Valley peole, Fr. Rade) know there is only one real football team. I really enjoy being a thorn in the side of Clevelanders, proudly wearing the Black & Gold.

    I hope all is well with our beloved friends at St. George and in Fr. Dragan’s words; Go Stillers!!!

  11. 2008 December 14
    Athanasia permalink

    Wow! I did not know this! Thanks for sharing it.

  12. 2008 December 14
    Valerie Backo permalink

    Troy is my favorite player, not just favorite Steeler, but favorite player because of the man that he is. It is very difficult to find men in any professional sport with such character and strong faith. God Bless him! Now, this is a man that is a fabulous role model for young athletes!!!

    Father Milovan, I still love you even though you are a Browns fan. I’ll keep praying for you and the wisdom to just give it up! lol

  13. 2008 December 14
    Mira Filipovic permalink

    Lord Have Mercy!! I’m speechless!

  14. 2008 December 14
    Fr. Rade Merick permalink

    One again, Fr. Milovan, you are exactly right!

  15. 2008 December 14

    I love Polamalu too, but I’m still a Browns fan.

  16. 2008 December 14
    Fr. Dragan & Mira permalink

    We just love Polamalu!!!

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